Career Myth #2 Networking is awkward and you need to be naturally outgoing to build a strong professional network.

Nope. Not even close.

The best networkers I know? They’re not working the room at conferences. They’re having intentional one-on-one coffees. They’re commenting thoughtfully on posts. They’re reconnecting with former colleagues.

A Stanford study found that weak ties – those casual connections – are actually more valuable for career advancement than your close network. Why? Because they expose you to new opportunities and perspectives.

Networking isn’t about collecting business cards. It’s about building genuine relationships in ways that feel authentic to YOU.

So if the thought of “networking events” makes you want to hide, good news: that’s not the only way. Find your way and do it with your own networking style. And if you don’t know what that is, you can always get help!